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Conflict at Work: When to Intervene and How

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Conflict at Work: When to Intervene and How

Filed Under: Advisory and compliance, Career Planning, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 27 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces — workplace conflict is inevitable. How you respond to it is not. 

Most leaders fall into one of two patterns: they intervene too early — stepping in to resolve things that the parties involved could have worked out themselves — or they wait too long, hoping things settle down and allowing conflict to escalate and damage both relationships and team performance.
Neither approach serves the business well.

 

 

The three types of conflict 

Task conflict

  • disagreement about approaches, methods, or work content.

This is actually healthy in small doses — it produces better decisions. Leaders should facilitate these conversations, not suppress them. 

Process conflict  

If employees do not feel safe to raise concerns, issues often stay hidden until they escalate. Businesses need reporting pathways that are trusted, clear, and free from fear of retaliation.

3. Workplace policies need to be lived, not just written 

  • disagreement about how work gets done, who is responsible, and what the expectations are.

This is often a management failure — unclear roles, poor processes, or misaligned expectations create the conditions for this type of conflict. The fix is usually structural, not interpersonal. 

Relationship conflict

  • personal friction between individuals.

This is the most damaging, the slowest to self-resolve, and the one that most requires active management intervention.

 

When to intervene

If the conflict is affecting the work, affecting other team members, or showing signs of escalating — intervene now. The “wait and see” approach for relationship conflict almost always results in a worse outcome.
Early intervention looks like: a private conversation with each person to understand their perspective, followed by a facilitated conversation between them where the goal is a workable way forward, not a declaration of who was right.

 

What not to do 

Don’t take sides based on seniority or performance history. Don’t discuss the conflict with other team members. Don’t make promises you can’t keep about outcomes.

 

When it’s beyond a conversation 

If the conflict involves allegations of bullying or harassment, it needs to be managed as a formal matter — with a proper investigation process, appropriate documentation, and adherence to your policies and the law.
Getting conflict management right protects the individuals involved, the team around them, and the culture of the business.

 

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Offboarding: The Process That Protects Your Business When People Leave

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Offboarding: The Process That Protects Your Business When People Leave

Filed Under: Advisory and compliance, Business Update, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 26 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces — offboarding is the business process that most SMEs have never thought about deliberately. They have an onboarding process — or at least the beginnings of one — but when someone leaves, it’s often managed reactively, inconsistently, and incompletely. 

That creates risk. Here’s what a proper offboarding process covers. 

 

 

Knowledge transfer 

When someone leaves, their knowledge leaves with them — unless you’ve deliberately captured it. Before their last day, critical processes, contacts, client relationships, passwords, and institutional knowledge should be documented and handed over. This is particularly important for long-tenured employees or roles with high operational dependency.

 

System access

On or before their last day, all system access should be revoked: email, CRM, finance systems, cloud storage, social media accounts, and any other platforms they had access to. Failing to do this promptly creates security exposure that may not be visible until there’s a problem.

 

Client and stakeholder communication

For client-facing roles, manage the transition actively. Who tells key clients? When? What’s the narrative? Who takes over the relationship? A poorly managed departure can cost you a client who would otherwise have stayed.

 

Return of company property

Laptops, phones, access cards, company credit cards, and any other physical assets need to be returned and logged. This is legally required where these items are specified in the employment contract, and practically important regardless.

 

Exit interview (see Day 9) 

Already covered earlier in the series — but it bears repeating here as a structured part of the offboarding process. The exit interview should happen in the final week, conducted by someone the departing employee trusts to use the information constructively.

 

Final pay and documentation

As we covered on Day 23 — final pay must be processed within the required timeframe and must include all owed entitlements. Provide a letter confirming end of employment if requested.
The way someone leaves your business becomes a story they tell. A clean, respectful, well-managed exit creates an ambassador. A chaotic, incomplete, or poorly handled one creates a reputation risk.

 

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How to Set KPIs That Actually Drive Performance

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How to Set KPIs That Actually Drive Performance

Filed Under: Advisory and compliance, Change management, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 24 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces — KPIs are one of the most widely used and most widely misunderstood performance tools in business.

Done well, KPIs create clarity, alignment, and accountability. Done badly, they create gaming, resentment, and a disconnect between what the business actually needs and what people are being measured on. 

 

The most common mistakes

Too many KPIs. When everything is a priority, nothing is. Most roles should have three to five meaningful KPIs — not twelve. If you have more than five, you’re measuring activity rather than outcomes.
KPIs that measure inputs, not outputs. Tracking the number of calls made, the hours logged, or the volume of tasks completed tells you what someone is doing, not what they’re achieving. The best KPIs measure outcomes that actually matter to the business.
KPIs that the individual can’t influence. If someone’s measured on a business result they don’t directly control — total company revenue, a market condition, another team’s performance — you’ve designed a frustration, not a motivator.

 

How to build KPIs that work  

Start with the role, not the metric. What does success actually look like in this position? What are the two or three things, if done well, that would mean this person is doing their job brilliantly? Those answers become your KPIs.
Make them SMART. Specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound. “Improve client satisfaction” is a goal. “Achieve a client satisfaction score of 8.5 or above on the monthly survey by end of Q4” is a KPI.
Build in a review cycle. KPIs should be reviewed — not just at annual review time — but quarterly at minimum. Business priorities shift. A KPI that was relevant six months ago may no longer be.
Connect them to development. The best KPIs are challenging enough to stretch someone while remaining achievable with focus and effort. They create growth, not just measurement.
A well-designed KPI is a conversation starter, not just a number on a spreadsheet.

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Termination Done Right: The Legal Steps Most Businesses Skip

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Termination Done Right: The Legal Steps Most Businesses Skip

Filed Under: Business Update, Career Planning, Change management, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 23 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces — termination. It’s the part of the job nobody enjoys, and the part where the most legal mistakes are made. 

Getting termination wrong — even where the grounds for dismissal are completely valid — can convert a justified exit into an unfair dismissal or a general protections claim.

 

The steps most businesses skip

1. Providing a clear reason 

An employee being terminated has the right to know why. Not a vague statement about “business reasons” or “not being the right fit” — a specific, factual reason. If the termination is for performance or conduct, that reason should not be a surprise: it should have been communicated through a performance management process. 

2. Giving the opportunity to respond

Before a termination decision is finalised, the employee should be given an opportunity to respond to the reason. This doesn’t mean the decision changes — but the process requires that it’s offered. Skipping this step is one of the most common procedural failures in unfair dismissal cases.

3. Allowing a support person

Employees have the right to have a support person present in meetings where dismissal is being discussed. You don’t have to allow legal representation, but a trusted colleague or union representative is their right. Denying this, or failing to offer it, is a procedural risk.

4. Providing appropriate notice 

Termination requires the notice period specified in the contract or Award, or payment in lieu of notice. Not providing this is a breach of contract and an employment law violation.

5. Managing the final pay correctly

Final pay must be processed within a specific timeframe and must include all owed entitlements: outstanding wages, accrued annual leave, long service leave where applicable, and any other contractual entitlements. Errors in final pay are common and create additional legal exposure.

 

The documentation to have ready

Letter of termination, statement of the reason, final pay calculation, written record of the process followed.
Done properly, termination is clean, compliant, and defensible. Done carelessly, it creates exactly the kind of legal exposure you were trying to avoid.

 

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What Leadership Coaching Looks Like in Practice

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What Leadership Coaching Looks Like in Practice

Filed Under: Advisory and compliance, Career Planning, Change management, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 22 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces — today I’m sharing what leadership coaching actually looks like in practice, using the Intentional Coach program as a lens.

Most people associate coaching with executive programmes, large corporates, and price tags that put it out of reach for the average SME. The Intentional Coach program exists specifically to change that — delivering structured, evidence-based coaching for SME leaders and managers who want to lead better but don’t have the time or budget for generic corporate training.

 

What the program covers 

The Intentional Coach program is built around the real challenges SME leaders face: managing people without the safety net of an HR department, having difficult conversations, building team capability, creating accountability without micromanaging, and maintaining their own wellbeing in a high-pressure environment.
Each participant begins with a tailored questionnaire and a discovery conversation. The reason for this is straightforward: cookie-cutter leadership training rarely produces lasting change, because it doesn’t account for the specific context, team, and challenges the individual is navigating.

 

 

What makes it different

It’s delivered remotely, which means it’s accessible regardless of location. It’s tracked over time using a structured system, so both the participant and I can see what’s shifting — not just in the conversations, but in the actual results in their team and business. And it’s built on positive psychology principles, which means it starts from strengths rather than deficits.
The most consistent feedback I receive is not about the tools or frameworks — it’s about having a structured space to think through the real challenges of managing people, with someone who understands both the HR context and the pressures of running or leading a business.

 

Who is it for?

Business owners who have recently taken on a management role. Managers who were promoted for their technical skills but haven’t had formal people-leadership development. Leadership teams preparing for growth or change. Anyone who wants to lead with more confidence and less reactivity.
If you want to understand whether coaching is the right fit for you or a member of your team, the starting point is a conversation.

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The Most Expensive Person in Your Business Isn’t Always the Most Obvious Problem

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The Most Expensive Person in Your Business Isn't Always the Most Obvious Problem

Filed Under: Advisory and compliance, Change management, Culture, External HR Support, HR essentials, Leadership

Day 21 of 31 Days of Better Workplaces —

There’s a particular kind of person in some small and medium businesses that the owner is aware of, uncomfortable about, and quietly protecting. They deliver. Their numbers are good. Clients like them — or at least clients never complain about them.

And everyone else on the team walks on eggshells around them. Including, if we’re being honest, the owner.

This is the toxic high performer. And the reason they’re so costly isn’t the behaviour itself — it’s what the behaviour does to everyone else.
What most SME leaders don’t realise is how much authority this person has accumulated outside the formal structure. Other team members have learned to read the room through them. Newer employees figure out the unwritten rules by watching how this person operates and what they can get away with. Their reaction to a business decision — an eye roll in a meeting, a dismissive comment in the kitchen — can quietly undermine more leadership communication than any formal initiative can build.
In short: they are often the real ideological centre of your workplace. The culture revolves around managing them, accommodating them, and working around the discomfort they create.
The performance case for keeping them has been made in your head many times. I understand it. But have you ever calculated the other side of the ledger? The people who left because of them. The ones who quietly reduce their output because ambition feels risky. The cost of a workplace where everyone performs compliance rather than genuine engagement.
Toxic high performers are a culture risk that shows up in the financials long before it shows up anywhere obvious.
Most businesses don’t act until there’s an incident they can’t ignore. By then, the culture has already been shaped around the problem.

 

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